Rock · US · Active since 2017

To Be Gentle

Raw, heart-on-sleeve screamo that balances punishing intensity with shimmering post-rock beauty. Cathartic music for processing the heaviest parts of being human.

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To Be Gentle is a prolific screamo/post-rock project originating from Eugene, Oregon, primarily led by Eve Beeker. Since their formation in 2017, they have maintained an incredibly high output, releasing numerous albums and EPs that explore the intersections of emotional hardcore, atmospheric black metal, and ambient music.

Their sound identity is built on the 'soft-loud' dynamic, utilizing clean, melodic guitar passages that erupt into chaotic, distorted crescendos. Culturally, they occupy a vital space in the modern 'skramz' revival, particularly noted for their trans-inclusive perspective and focus on themes of inner-child healing, trauma, and mental health. Their work is often compared to peers like Frail Body and Ostraca, yet they are distinguished by a more pronounced post-rock influence and a willingness to experiment with long-form, atmospheric compositions. Critical consensus highlights their ability to maintain a raw, DIY ethic while achieving a sophisticated level of melodic songwriting. They represent a shift in the genre toward radical vulnerability and away from stylized aggression.

Our Catalog19 Albums · 2019 · 2025
The Sound · Center of GravityWeighted across the artist's discography. Tap a trait for examples.
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